Pat Talks About His Body Image Over The Years

I recently had the pleasure of chatting with Pat via Instagram.  I really enjoyed our chats and his openness on life in general.  He really opened up during our discussion and has provided great feedback on his body image that so many of us face. 

Age?  49

Stats?  5'6, 175

What age did you start having body image issues?  about 14

What age did you really start loving your body?  not sure I actually have.  I'm comfortable with it is about the best I can say

What caused you to ever have doubts about the way your body looked?  seeing all the other boys in the locker room in gym class

Are you comfortable being nude in front of others? Ie lockerrom, bedroom, etc : in spite of it all, I actually don't mind being naked in front of others.  wherever it may happen

What does body positivity mean to you?  what it means to me is that no matter what, just be comfortable in your own skin.  no matter what others may think of you

What is your favorite body part?  my eyes.  and my penis

What is your least favorite body part?  my torso

What do you love most about your body?  there isn't any one thing I love the most about my body.  

What would you like to improve about your body?  I'd like to lose about 30 pounds and get better toned at the same time

What is special about your body?   nothing really special about my body except maybe how it defies people's expectations of what I can do just by looking at me

What do you do to make yourself feel better about yourself?  nothing in particular here.  I just stop dwelling on whatever negative feelings are present

How often are you naked just because?  any time I'm alone, I'm naked.  seldom with others outside of the random hookup

How often do you check yourself out?  not very much

What do you find attractive physically in a potential mate?  this is a tricky one to answer.  I find a lot of different things attractive in different guys.  it really depends on the guy in question

Have you always had positive thoughts about your body?  I've almost never had positive thoughts about my body.

What do you tell yourself when you aren’t feeling so positive about your body?  I really don't tell myself anything.  I just let myself work past whatever is making me feel negative

Has there been anyone in your life that you’ve modeled your body positivity after?  no one

When do you feel most confident about how your body looks?  when I'm showing off on cam

What’s your favorite outfit that makes you feel your hottest?  skimpy underwear

When is a time that you’ve felt the best about your body? whenever I'm hooking up with a guy

Who makes you feel the most sexy?  no one in particular makes me feel the most sexy.  

Is there a time of year that you feel most sexy?  no time of year makes me feel any sexier than another

What male celebrity do you think has the best body/body positivity?  Chris Pratt

Ig name?  fubar231